I've come across many kids from different walks of life being a youth leader. And a number of them were sexually molested by family members or family friends. The problem was, when telling their parents....they were accused of lying and wanting attention. And when the problem becomes unresolved, not only does that child suffer, but so does that person's child and so on in the future. When are the parents going to believe their children when serious issues like these come about? I too, had almost been molested by a family friend until I fought back and told my parents. My dad went after the guy to beat the living crap out of the jerk....from that day forward, that guy never came around. Parents...please protect your children and let them know that you are there for them no matter what. I was 19 when this crap happended. I'm now 34 and I'm teaching my baby sister of 9 yrs old to fight back when people tries to touch her unappropriately and to tell me or my folks. This sort of problem has been around for ages and will continue when we neglect those that are in arms reach. As for the jerks and women who takes advantage of the innocence....you all need to burn in a "umu pit"....if you are a victim of incest, get help. There are places and people you could turn to. My prayers that you will heal from this ordeal and be able to help others to stand up and fight.